I’m Rae Hill, and I own and run Origami Customs. I run a customized and handmade line of swimwear, lingerie, and more for folks of all genders. I offer people of any size, shape, age, ability and gender expression a safe way to have customized items that meet their needs. I’m also a proud partner of Point of Pride’s Free Trans Femme Shapewear Program!
A gaff is, at its most basic, a pair of compression underwear. A gaff is made to be worn either with or without a “tuck” and works to help trans femme folks (or anyone else with a penis*) achieve a flatter, more gender-affirmed look. Amongst many other things, this can help folks fit certain clothing designs (like swimwear) in a way that is more comfortable and affirming. For many trans femme folks, tucking is also important to their safety when out in public.
This is based on personal preference. Many folks like the cut of a hipster-style gaff, as it’s a more modest cut that offers a higher level of compression – perfect for everyday wear and helping you just feel great about your body or reflection.
Choosing the right size of gaff is just like choosing the right size of regular underwear. Measure around your waist, just above the hips, then be sure to check the seller’s sizing guides to confirm the right size for you. (Don’t go down a size! Tighter is not better.)
You may already be aware of Point of Pride’s awesome Free Trans Femme Shapewear Program, which mails free garments to folks who cannot afford or safely obtain them. Origami Customs proudly works with this program. The gaffs I make for recipients are the hipster gaffs in black. These are customized for size and delivered to people on the waiting list who are in need of them.
And – if you need a garment more urgently while you’re waiting for a donation, you can always substitute a gaff for a tighter pair of regular underwear or panties. As long as the fabric is not too loose, not too tight – you can still feel more affirmed and comfortable!
As a non-binary queer femme with a trans masculine partner, I care deeply about the needs of the community, which is why I offer completely customizable items for people across the gender spectrum. A large part of what I do is to make gaffs for trans femme folks! As far as I know, I’m the only person making gaffs with no size limits, and with customized sizing. They come in seven styles and six colors. As well, folks ordering directly from me can have any item made as a gaff, for free.
I’m so happy to be bringing these gaffs to folks who face access barriers, as many trans femmes have more boundaries to stable work and housing, along with other systemic barriers. It’s just one part of my Community Program, which aims to recognize the needs of my community and blur the lines between what it means to be a business or a community support organization. I recognize that purchasing ethically and from a fair wage company is sometimes unaffordable, and so I work to bring these products to everyone.
Note: This asterisk (*) is used to acknowledge the many different words that are used for this body part.