Meet Xander
Xander's story
Electrolysis Support Fund recipient
Xander (he/him) is an Indigenous Two-Spirit trans person seeking permanent hair removal on his forearm before his upcoming surgery.
Completing hair removal is essential to prevent medical complications. "I want to be able to walk freely in gym showers and other spaces without fear of ridicule or not being safe. I long to feel day-to-day joy catching myself in the mirror as I step into my shower at home, and feel at peace within my body," he explains. Access to this gender-affirming care is crucial for Xander's physical health and emotional well-being, helping him to live his life with confidence and pride.
Xander's timeline
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Award Granted
April 1, 2024
Xander was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!
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Update
May 27, 2024
Xander shared, "My RFF Phalloplasty surgery stage 1 has been scheduled for August 12!! I am so excited! "
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Care Received
June 11, 2024
A payment has been made toward Xander's permanent hair removal!
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Update
July 23, 2024
Xander shared, "My RFF phalloplasty stage 1 surgery is August 12! Thats NEXT MONTH! I am so excited i can hardly contain myself! I just want to express my gratitude and thank you all from the bottom of my heart. I will give you updates on the progress of my bottom surgery if you would like?"
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Update
August 12, 2024
Beacuse Xander was able to receive electrolysis, he had his RFF Phalloplasty today!
Grant details
$1,250 towards gender-affirming care.
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About Hair Removal: Masc Award
On average, it costs $1,700+ for Xander's care.
- What is it?
- Before care
- After care
What is it?
Point of Pride provides grants to trans masc people seeking hair removal on an area of their body in preparation for bottom surgery.
What is life like for a person who needs this care?
Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans, even if such services are medical prerequisites for a covered surgery. For people who cannot afford hair removal, they are stuck without options to move forward with their healthcare needs.
What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?
After completing hair removal, these folks are able to move forward with their surgeries. In itself, this often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, and more.