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Meet TR

TR

TR's story

Electrolysis Support Fund recipient

TR (they/she) is a trans woman who currently works as a self-employed contractor, making around $800 a month. Some months are more financially stable, while others bring in no income at all. Despite holding a degree in project management, TR struggles to secure a job in their field since beginning their transition. "If I want to get a job I have to present as male," TR shares.

Facial hair is a significant barrier for TR, making it difficult to present as female. "I have to shave my face twice a day to stay clean-shaven," they explain. The constant need to shave and the sight of their facial hair cause immense distress. "I hate looking at myself in the mirror because of my facial hair. But I have to look in the mirror to shave. It’s a daily battle I go through, constantly forcing myself to look in the mirror so I can shave."

Receiving a grant for facial hair removal would be life-changing for TR. It would not only alleviate the daily distress and discomfort but also boost their confidence, allowing them to seek employment while presenting as female. "My confidence will build so I can get a job while presenting as female."

TR's timeline

  • Award Granted

    April 4, 2024

    TR was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!

  • Care Received

    May 28, 2024

    A payment has been made toward TR's permanent hair removal!

Grant details

$2,000 towards gender-affirming care.

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About Hair Removal: Femme Award

On average, it costs $2,300+ for TR's care.

What is it?

Point of Pride provides grants to trans femme people seeking hair removal on their face, neck, or an area of the body in preparation for bottom surgery.

What is life like for a person who needs this care?

For trans femme folks, particularly trans femmes of color, access to facial hair removal often equates to safety against anti-trans violence or discrimination. It's common for applicants to note issues with employment and public safety, particularly if their facial hair is dark or thick. Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans.

What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?

Access to hair removal often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.