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Meet Tahje

Tahje

Tahje's story

Electrolysis Support Fund recipient

Tahje (she/her) is a 34-year-old Black trans woman living on her own. Although she is blessed to have housing, she struggles daily to make ends meet. Her expenses include bills, rent, and food when she can afford it. With rent at $1300, she often has little to nothing left at the end of each month to support her transition, especially for laser and cosmetic expenses.

Tahje's confidence has been challenged by identity phobia, particularly due to her fast-growing facial hair, a result of her mixed race. "Every day, sometimes twice a day, I have to shave for upkeep and my own comfort," she shares. The constant need to shave is a daily reminder of her struggle with hair. There are times when she can't afford makeup for full coverage, making her feel less of a woman. "I just want to be able to have the confidence to be free," Tahje expresses.

Receiving support for laser hair removal would significantly boost Tahje's confidence and alleviate the daily stress of maintaining her appearance. It would allow her to feel more comfortable and secure in her identity, helping her live her life with greater freedom and self-assurance.

Tahje's timeline

  • Award Granted

    April 15, 2024

    Tahje was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!

Grant details

$2,000 towards gender-affirming care.

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About Hair Removal: Femme Award

On average, it costs $2,300+ for Tahje's care.

What is it?

Point of Pride provides grants to trans femme people seeking hair removal on their face, neck, or an area of the body in preparation for bottom surgery.

What is life like for a person who needs this care?

For trans femme folks, particularly trans femmes of color, access to facial hair removal often equates to safety against anti-trans violence or discrimination. It's common for applicants to note issues with employment and public safety, particularly if their facial hair is dark or thick. Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans.

What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?

Access to hair removal often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.