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Meet Nicole

Nicole

Nicole's story

Electrolysis Support Fund recipient

Nicole (she/her) has been transitioning for many years and is now seeking support due to numerous factors contributing to her financial need. Having spent her life in service of others through work in EMS, coaching, and the fire department, Nicole is currently unemployed. Every dime she has goes towards bills or supporting her family. She is actively looking for work but has yet to find anything.

Nicole is married, with three children and seven grandchildren. She constantly shaves her face and neck, to the extent that she doesn't let even her wife touch her face due to the stubble. Her grandchildren often try to touch her face, but she has to catch them and hug them before they can. This is just one of the many reasons her life is difficult. "Hair removal will improve my life immeasurably," Nicole says.

Nicole's timeline

  • Award Granted

    April 4, 2024

    Nicole was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!

  • Care Received

    May 24, 2024

    A payment has been made toward Nicole's permanent hair removal!

  • Care Received

    July 31, 2024

    A payment has been made toward Nicole's permanent hair removal!

Grant details

$4,000 towards gender-affirming care.

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About Hair Removal: Femme Award

On average, it costs $2,300+ for Nicole's care.

What is it?

Point of Pride provides grants to trans femme people seeking hair removal on their face, neck, or an area of the body in preparation for bottom surgery.

What is life like for a person who needs this care?

For trans femme folks, particularly trans femmes of color, access to facial hair removal often equates to safety against anti-trans violence or discrimination. It's common for applicants to note issues with employment and public safety, particularly if their facial hair is dark or thick. Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans.

What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?

Access to hair removal often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.