Meet Melissa
Melissa's story
Electrolysis Support Fund recipient
Melissa (she/her) has been unemployed for a long time due to a mix of dysphoria and various disabilities, including ADHD, extreme social anxiety, chronic depression, panic attacks, anorexia, and memory issues. She lives with her family in a house in poor condition, with issues like the floor giving out, mice, and no proper AC or heating. Although not currently a student, Melissa pays for HRT out of pocket, leaving her with no money for other necessities.
Melissa shares that shaving irritates her sensitive skin, and hair removal cream has burned her. Receiving laser hair removal would eliminate a major source of her dysphoria. "Getting laser would help me pass better, be safer, and remove one less barrier between me and employment," she says.
Melissa's timeline
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Award Granted
April 9, 2024
Melissa was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!
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Care Received
July 30, 2024
A payment has been made toward Melissa's permanent hair removal!
Grant details
$6,000 towards gender-affirming care.
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About Hair Removal: Femme Award
On average, it costs $2,300+ for Melissa's care.
- What is it?
- Before care
- After care
What is it?
Point of Pride provides grants to trans femme people seeking hair removal on their face, neck, or an area of the body in preparation for bottom surgery.
What is life like for a person who needs this care?
For trans femme folks, particularly trans femmes of color, access to facial hair removal often equates to safety against anti-trans violence or discrimination. It's common for applicants to note issues with employment and public safety, particularly if their facial hair is dark or thick. Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans.
What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?
Access to hair removal often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.