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Meet Lilly

Lilly

Lilly's story

HRT Access Fund recipient

Electrolysis Support Fund recipient

Lilly (she/they) and their partner have been together for almost four years, navigating life without any family support. Lilly's partner is disabled, and Lilly takes care of them, making their financial situation particularly challenging. Despite finding a steady job, it barely covers their expenses, adding to the stress.

Receiving this fund would be a significant milestone in Lilly's transition journey. "It is hard to pass as someone who has a full bushy beard that has to shave every day," Lilly shares. "It would be amazing for people to actually start using my preferred pronouns and make work a lot more tolerable. I get 'sir'd' a lot, which makes work very uncomfortable for me." This support would allow Lilly to express herself in a way that brings continuous joy and alleviate much of the discomfort she faces daily.

Lilly's timeline

  • Award Granted

    April 9, 2024

    Lilly was awarded a grant toward permanent hair removal!

  • Care Received

    July 16, 2024

    A payment has been made toward Lilly's permanent hair removal!

  • Care Received

    July 21, 2024

    A payment has been made toward Lilly's permanent hair removal!

  • Award Granted

    September 13, 2024

    Lilly was awarded a grant toward HRT/GaHT!

Grant details

$3,200 towards gender-affirming care.

TikTok-a-Thon grantee





About Estrogen+

On average, it costs $1,700+/year for Lilly's care.

What is it?

Estrogen+ refers to the gender-affirming hormone replacement therapy (HRT) methods that some trans women, trans femme, and non-binary people take that result in physical changes which align with their gender identity. Every person's preferences and personal healthcare needs vary, so this can include oral medications, injections, and transdermal patches.

How accessible is it for trans folks to receive this care?

For trans folks who live in states most impacted by anti-trans healthcare legislation, it can be extremely difficult to find a knowledgeable, trans-affirming provider as well as access prescription medication. Many insurance plans do not cover HRT. For trans folks without insurance coverage, the ongoing out-of-pocket expense can be challenging.

What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?

Estogen+ introduces a wide range of feminizing physical, emotional, and psychological changes that align with their gender identity. This often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.

About Hair Removal: Femme Award

On average, it costs $2,300+ for Lilly's care.

What is it?

Point of Pride provides grants to trans femme people seeking hair removal on their face, neck, or an area of the body in preparation for bottom surgery.

What is life like for a person who needs this care?

For trans femme folks, particularly trans femmes of color, access to facial hair removal often equates to safety against anti-trans violence or discrimination. It's common for applicants to note issues with employment and public safety, particularly if their facial hair is dark or thick. Electrolysis and laser hair removal services are often deemed cosmetic and therefore not covered by health insurance plans.

What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?

Access to hair removal often leads to a more positive emotional well-being, increased confidence, increased safety when in public, and better opportunities at employment and more.