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Meet Kelli

Kelli

Kelli's story

Annual Trans Surgery Fund recipient

Kelli (she/her) is a proud trans woman, caregiver, and single mother whose life has always revolved around family. As a Pacific Islander, she holds the honored role of caring for her aging parents and her youngest sister. “My family is my priority,” she shares, “but I can no longer deny myself what I have always wanted.”

For Kelli, this surgery is decades in the making. At 11 years old, she discovered an article on surgery for trans women and made a promise to herself to have a procedure by 25. “This to me means the world.” Through all of life’s challenges, she has remained a passionate advocate for indigenous sovereignty, LGBTQIA2S+ rights, and the unhoused community. Now, she is finally taking a step toward affirming herself in the same way she has always affirmed others.

Kelli's timeline

  • Award Granted

    March 9, 2025

    Tatum was awarded a grant toward gender affirming surgery!

Grant details

$24,050 towards gender-affirming care.

Stream-a-Thon grantee





About MTF Bottom Surgery

On average, it costs $35,000+ for Kelli's care.

What is it?

MTF bottom surgery is also known as gender-affirming vaginoplasty or genital reconstruction surgery. Bottom surgery typically involves multiple surgical techniques and varies widely based on a person’s individual needs and desired outcome.

What is life like for a person who needs this care?

Before undergoing surgery, trans individuals typically experience dysphoria that impacts their daily life. Patients will undergo extensive consultations to discuss their goals, expectations, and surgical options. It is often a long and challenging process to be approved for surgery.

How accessible is it for trans folks to receive this care?

While bottom surgery is often categorized as a covered benefit in many insurance plans, the reality is that it's frequently denied coverage. Many people report unsuccessful attempts to appeal for coverage. In addition, finding skilled surgeons experienced in performing top surgery can be extremely challenging, particularly in states and regions most affected by anti-trans healthcare legislation.

What is the impact of this care on the recipient’s life?

The recovery period for bottom surgery is significant: depending on the individual, it may take several months to heal from the surgery. Most trans folks report greatly improved self-esteem, confidence, and sense of authenticity, which translates into greater opportunities in employment and more.