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10 Easy Ways to Foster Trans Joy in 2025

Joy is an act of resistance, and when we care for ourselves and our communities, we cultivate hope and resilience.
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As we step into 2025, many of us are feeling the weight of an uncertain political and legislative future. It’s natural to feel scared, stressed, or overwhelmed, but finding moments of joy—especially trans joy—is not only possible, it’s essential. Joy is an act of resistance, and when we care for ourselves and our communities, we cultivate hope and resilience.

We asked our team here at Point of Pride to share their favorite, everyday ways to spark joy—whether it’s connecting with chosen family, uplifting trans and queer creators, or finding small moments of celebration. Here’s what they said:

1. Hijack Your Algorithm for Happiness

Fill your social media feeds with more joy! Follow queer and trans creators who make you smile, inspire you, and remind you of the beauty of our community. By interacting with their content, you can start nudging the algorithm to curate a timeline that is uplifting and positive.

Here are just a few creators to get you started:

 

2. Check In on Your People

Schedule small but meaningful moments to build connection. Set reminders on your phone or in your calendar to text or check in on your chosen family, friends, or neighbors. A simple “I’m thinking of you” can go a long way in nurturing community care.

3. Celebrate Your Milestones

Jeff Main (he/him), Executive Director, suggests starting a calendar of important dates that commemorate milestones in your life: "Maybe it’s the day you started HRT, your name change anniversary, or a loved one’s top surgery date. Big or small, these moments deserve celebration!"

4. Write Letters of Support

Sending love to others can fill your own cup, too. Write letters of support for the trans folks Point of Pride sends chest binders and femme shapewear to—it’s a small but powerful way to remind someone they’re not alone. The recipients of these notes tell us all the time how unexpected and touching the message is.

5. Lean Into Self-Care

Tyler Rodriguez (he/him), Director of Programs, encourages us to take intentional time for self-care: "Whether it’s a bubble bath, a quiet moment with tea, or a guided meditation, prioritize practices that help you recharge."

6. Invite More Creativity

Abby Jaetzold (she/her), Care Coordinator, recommends creating a feel-good Spotify playlist featuring queer and trans artists. "Music can be a powerful tool to foster joy—so hit play and dance like nobody’s watching! Or, if you're into visual art, practice taking photos of moments that make you feel happy—selfies, scenery, your favorite meal—and save them in a dedicated photo album on your phone. It’s a beautiful reminder of all the little joys you’ve experienced."

Our team has our own Feel Good Spotify playlist: use it to inspire your own jams!

7. Watch Inspiring Queer Documentaries

Jay Bonner (they/them), Operations & Finance Manager, shares that watching documentaries about influential LGBTQ+ figures can be a source of encouragement and joy. "Hearing the stories of people who have been 'great' or 'honorable' reminds us of the incredible strength of our community."


8. Support Queer-Owned Businesses

Wear clothing that makes you feel confident and shop from LGBTQ-owned businesses when you can. Supporting queer creators helps keep joy and creativity alive in our community.

Here are just a few of the very many awesome businesses out there:

Plus, check out Everywhere is Queer to find local options to support in your community!

9. Find or Start a Group

Aydian Dowling (he/him), Chief Advancement Officer, suggests connecting with LGBTQ+ groups in your area: "Look for events at local LGBT Centers, check out meetup.com, or consider starting your own group around a hobby—whether it’s knitting, bowling, gaming, or binging your favorite TV shows. You’ll be amazed at how joyful it feels to bond with others who share your interests."

10. Read and Consume Queer Art

Melissa Rodriguez (she/her), Volunteer, recommends, "Get a library card and dive into queer books, art, and media. Stories and art made by LGBTQ+ creators can be healing, inspiring, and joyful!"

For recommendations, check out Penguin Random House's Ultimate LGBTQ+ Pride Book List.

 


Joy Is Resistance

Finding joy doesn’t mean ignoring what’s difficult—it means holding space for happiness, connection, and celebration despite the challenges we face. These small, everyday actions can help you feel grounded, loved, and hopeful.

Joy is yours to claim—and you deserve every bit of it.
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Point of Pride provides financial aid and direct support to trans folks in need of health and wellness care.